I know one may feature which may be positive and may be negative, it depends on the person with whom I am. I am very patient woman and it is very hard to make me believe that my hard situation is not my own fault. I used to be optimist and I never give up if I know that it is important for me. My favorite proverb is: “Knock at the door and it will be opened”
I also believe that all people are very kind and ready to help. But I always rely only to myself. But I am also very happy when I find a person who is ready to share my pain with me.