Resort romance: to be or not to be???
Summer…… Time of vacations, hopes and joyful changes! For many people summer is the rule of three “S” (as Europeans say): Sex, Sun and Sea. Hot beach, golden sand, gentle sea waves, chic hotel, cafe, loneliness, new surroundings , new acquaintances – all this and many other things creates perfect “atmosphere” for development of resort romances.
Sexual-summer devilries are bathing in champagne, body-art with ice-cream and a strawberry with cream, night on the coast and sex in gentle waves related to the category of experimental and guarantee different degree of ecstasy – from a quiet pleasure to stormy delight. All this approves us in thoughts that the summer is simply created for love and to keep our mind during a hot time is not so easy!
On vacation, having pulled out from the routine and boring life, all we are dreaming about the romance and love. Someone stays in illusions and expect that in exactly this way he or she will meet his (her) beloved and someone simply wishes to spend a good time, that after vacation was something to recollect about. So whether to have resort romances or not? Let’s try to weigh all pro’s and con’s…
5 REASONS TO HAVE a resort romance:
1) If suddenly something serious grows from this?
Starting a resort romance some people hope that it can turn into something serious. Unfortunately, in a reality, it happens rare enough. But after all it DOES happen! So do not lose hope! Moreover, it is difficult to imagine more beautiful beginning of the romance than the night
walks on deserted beaches, romantic songs near the fire or looking at the stars on the deck of a huge cruise liner. In addition, according to psychologists, for so many people vacation is the only chance to meet new people. This is especially true for those people whose lives have been turned into a vicious circle home-work-home, to be pulled out from which is possible only for the period of vacation.
2) You will get a unique chance to experience the “concentrated” love
If marriage with your “resort lover” and starting a family is not into your plans, you can simply enjoy with “maximum concentrated feelings”. As both of you understand that all your love is given only 2 weeks of vacation, events will occur with huge speed. In usual life between acquaintance and the first kiss can pass some months, or even more, the resort romance reminds a movie, which has been put into a rapid rewind, when 2 hours of hero’s experiences and joys are scrolled for 5 minutes. In such mode feelings turn out as much as possible “concentrated”. A such strongest emotional shake-up, which so simply vital for many of us.
3) You will have something to recollect about
If your normal life is rather monotonous, then such a splash of emotions is able to give it new colors. You get a positive emotions so useful to your health . As psychologists consider, absence of pleasant memories is one of the signs of depression beginning.
4) This can improve your relations with your beloved
How is it not paradoxical, but this “most emotional shake-up” can improve your relationship with the partner, who stayed at home. Having the feeling of celebration on vacation, we don’t demand it from a partner who is with us. In fact, as you know, to feel all the charm of life, we need alternation of emotions: rough periods should be replaced with calm and measured. So maybe shouldn’t we demand this variety only from “the only one”?
5) You will look just irresistible after returning from vacation
The absolute axiom, that after the resort romance a woman looks a million times better than after 2 weeks of daily visits to the best cosmetologist. Anyway, any beautician will not guarantee you such shiny eyes and bright sparks in it!
5 REASONS NOT TO HAVE a resort romance:
1) You will get a depression instead of pleasant memories
That part of the people who are going to vacation for love affair and then receive instead a noncommittal mix of flirt and sex – has every chance to fall into serious depression after returning. Insult on one certain person, whose an illusive call you were waiting almost for whole autumn, can turn back in a rage and anger not only for the entire opposite sex, but also in general on the whole world. How to avoid this? It is very simple: not to wait from a resort romance too much!
2) It can affect your relations with your beloved
If you remember, in the first five reasons we talked about that resort affair may, over against, improve your relationships. But again, only if you are aware that person who you met in resort – it is just an episode of your life, albeit a very pleasant. However, to spoil the relationship with your regular partner can also the following two reasons.
3) Imprudence can lead to pregnancy
Alas, but simple resort flirt can end with the real tragedy for the woman, and unexpected problems for the man. Unfortunately, similar stories occur not only to people with ease concerning to sex. So, at first, just in case take care of contraception before going to resort and secondly, do not lose a head already on a place. Well, or simply refuse from sex!
4) There are so many unpleasant diseases in the world
However, except pregnancy there are also other unpleasant consequences of spontaneous resort sex with the unfamiliar person: these are numerous sexually-transmitted diseases. Absolute protection against them is not guaranteed by any means, but the greatest confidence in this sense causes a condom. By the way, if your new acquaintance flatly refuses to use it, it is absolute reason to refuse categorically from sex. Also, remember that the consent of such a risky sex you threaten not only to your health, but to a life also! And this is no joke!
5) The resort romance can turn into a drug
The point they can turn into a kind of drug. You bet! Scientists have found that during love our body produces a substance called feniletilamin, which cause the reaction of excitation similar to narcotic intoxication. But this substance is produced only at the first, the most passion stage of love, then its concentration in the body falls pretty soon . Accordingly, to maintain the level of feniletilamina at a high level you need to have short but regular affairs . Even though this more likely to men in recent years, psychologists say that among those “addicts” have an increasing number of women.
Of course, this is not all advantages and disadvantages of resort romances. Eventually, each one has its own. So, choose for yourself! And try to receive maximum of positive and minimum of negative emotions from vacation!!!
